Nate Pann Gist and Free Korean Vocabulary List : Knetizens are furious about a two-faced attitude towards her disabled relative

My mother-in-law is trying hand over a disabled person to someone

Good day. I am a mother of a 3 years old girl. Just like in the title, my mother-in-law is trying to hand over her disabled son. My husband’s brother has being using the wheelchair since middle school. He, as a 33 years old, is also working at a huge company that everyone recognizes just by the name and is envious of.Additionally, he is also a very kindhearted person. To some extent he walks and can freely do the house chores with his hands. Although physically inconvenienced, my brother-in-law, who has a very decent job, is capable of taking care of himself.

The problem is, my mother is pestering me to introduce him to someone physically okay. To be honest, this is very difficult. No matter how good his occupation is or perfect his personality is, he rides a wheelchair. If I bring up someone that rides a wheelchair to a woman without physically disability, it is so obvious how they would react, so I am torn. I am not saying that everything is perfect if one has no disability. I even introduced him to one of my friends, who works as a hairdresser, but she said that she wasn’t interested because he was one year older than her.

Seems like my brother-in-law is also stuck. He is fully aware of his place and seems to have made up his mind to live alone. However, my mother-in-law interferes and nags, so it must be hard for him too.

So what do you guys think I should do ? No matter how hard I rack my brain, I can’t come up with anything.

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Comments

[+469] [-9]

Let’s not further hurt your amazing brother-in-law by writing this here, just stay put and let your amazing brother-in-law handle his own.
[+379] [-7]

You know that you can flat out refuse right? amazing brother-in-law ? Don’t you know that by posting this you are further hurting your disabled brother-in-law??? Right from the title you had everything all wrong! You two-faced grandma!!
[+297] [-10]

“knows his place”ㅋㅋㅋ do you have some ill feelings towards your brother-in-law?

Korean vocabulary

시어머니 : mother-in-law
장애인 : disabled person
맡기다 : assign; charge; place; appoint
여아맘 : girl mom
제목 : title
중학생 : middle school student
전동 휠체어 : an electric (powered) wheelchair
이름을 대다 : tell[give] one´s name
공기업 : public enterprise , public firm
착하다 : kind, generous
어느정도 : in a [some] measure, in some degree, to some [a certain] degree [extent], somewhat
팔 : arm
자유롭다: free
독립하다 : be independent
집안일 : housework, household chores
남부럽다 : envious
스스로 : by oneself, for oneself
책임지다 : be in charge,be responsible
도련님 : young gentleman ,younger brother-in-law
멀쩡하다 : uninjured, unwounded,sane, sober
소개시키다 : mediate, introduce, explain
성화 : impatience, irritation,pestering
인품 : personality, character
휠체어 : wheelchair
얘기를 꺼내다 : bring up story
뻔하다 : evident, palpable, plain
곤란하다 : difficult, embarrassing, awkward
헤어 디자이너 : hair designer,hairdresser, hair stylist
연상 : seniority, elder
본인 : person concerned
처지 : circumstances
분수를 파악하다 : grasp of social position
나서다 : interfere, meddle
머리를 굴리다 : put one’s brain to work, put one’s thinking cap on,crack on thinking, try to think up a bright idea
답이 안 나온다: to not get the answer /solution
글쓰다 : write something
생채기를 내다 : make scratch
딱 잘라 : flatly, firmly, decidedly, unhesitatingly
거절하다 : refuse, reject, deny
시동생 : brother-in-law
상처를 주다 : hurt
이중인격 : double character
악감정 : ill feeling, an ill will, ill [bad] blood, animosity, an unfavorable impression.