Nate Pann gist and learning Korean with free vocabulary list : A Knetizen laments about marrying a gamer

A bit unfortunate to divorce because of 2 million won ( $ 1,465.59 ) .

Pre-divorce

I divorced because I couldn’t stand living that way any longer after 1 year of that lifestyle.

At the beginning, he wasn’t into gaming but not knowing that he actually was completely different, I decided to marry him.

They say to not miss it during dating*.

At that time my ex-husband used to earn 2.2 million won ( $1,611.58) as a factory worker, while I, working at an outlet store, earned 2.7 million won ($1,976.56 ). Furthermore since I also did weekend part-time jobs, I earned overall 3 million won ($2,196.72) a month.

However, my ex-husband as an addict would use up over 2 million won just for gaming. Up until then I had been foolishly paying for our living costs, being gas-lighted by him, someone who hadn’t even once gone to the supermarket with me. Consequently, after living like that for so long, my body felt so sick that I couldn’t work for one month.

That person of a husband said he didn’t have any money, didn’t answer my Kakao-talk messages, let alone pick up my calls. I couldn’t live anymore with a man that chased me like a loan shark, telling me that he had spent all his 2.2 million won salary so I had to gather some money for my parents.

Post-divorce

After realising that we weren’t any longer a couple, I hardened my heart and made up my mind to divorce. It has been a year since and have been able to save around 20 million won ( $14,620.10) after working hard part-timing during the weekends. My self esteem has improved and I have found a partner as well.

Whenever I look at my bank balance, I feel good and empty ( free/clear).

Your wife could be sick .

I wonder why he treated me so harshly despite spending all the money I earned on his games, even to the extent of getting so sick that I had to stop working.

When I reminisce on that time, I feel so empty and care-free.

This evening, I and my boyfriend are going to eat some beef, so I just accepted that as a blessing in disguise.

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Comments

- - - - [+283] [-1]
        
        The quick decision was outstanding!
        
        [+209] [-2]
        
        Can’t imagine how bad it would have been, had you made him a father.! What a swift decision, good!
        
        [+145] [-1]
        
        You did well breaking up with him! Having a child with such an addict would have had you living stuck in depression!