I and my husband are currently arguing because of a joke. Please I need some advice.
[Screenshot of tweet]
We are both shocked by the fact that we share vastly different opinions concerning the joke about and so are currently arguing. As people committed to an occupation that involves teaching people, we are so dumbfounded at our stupidity.
Since it is really late right now, we cannot ask our acquaintances for their perspectives, so we hope you guys will lend us your opinions. In the text above, the part “It is the same for me”, is confusing; So please help us understand.
Since people asked after the reason for our argument in the comments, I would like to add more context to this post.
I’ll conceal the gender and then tell you.
A: No matter how gay I am, just like other girls, you aren’t my type, so chill (so know your place).
B: I as well do not like girls , meaning that I cannot date women, so read the room ( You know you can’t get a girl yourself).
Shall we call it “The aftermath”?
Hmm… after reading the comments, it was interesting seeing your comments on A and B but I feel so bad that you all think that they are lacking.
Anyways, this was the basis of our disagreement, which caused us to be surprised and frustrated!
Since we aren’t biting and bickering at each other , you do not have to worry about us divorcing*.
Because I do not want to cause further conflict, I will also not disclose who is who (in the conversation above). However I personally think that I am the side that has the more logical stance.
Thanks to the people who wrote comments.
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판이하게, totally, vastly
충격받다,be shocked, be stunned
논쟁, debate, argument
똥멍청이, shit for brains
놀라다, be surprised, be astonished, be shocked, be scared
성별, sex, gender
가리다, distinguish, differentiate, block, screen, shield, obscure, hide, cover, conceal, veil
그러하듯, as ~, like ~
안심하다, feel easy, make oneself easy
제를 파악하다, grasp subject, to know one’s place
후기, epilogue, postscript
모자라다, lack, be short, be insufficient
서운하다, sorry, remorseful
기가 막히다,be dumbfounded, be at a loss for words
입장대립,conflict of position
첨예하다, acute, intense
첨예하게 대립하고 있다, to go eyeball to eyeball, conflict in opinion
언쟁하다, argue, bicker, row
유전자, genetic factor
남녀 간에,between male and female
원하다, want, wish, hope
밝히다. to disclose , to specify
상식, common sense
이성, the other sex, the opposite sex
가리다, distinguish, differentiate
Do the humans who relate to person “B” think that being gay is someone who turned into one because he doesn’t have the ability to date a woman?
Just because one is gay, that doesn’t mean he will fall for all men.
Women don’t like you = does not mean you fall in love with all of the other sex. Even if you say that your partner is a man, you are discriminating your partner*. I think A is correct.
Yall I am also learning Korean, so bear with me regarding the translations. I am translating as I understand and not literally.
* Not 100% sure of this sentence’s translation.